Question. I am a 32-year-old married man. My wife does not like to perform oral sex on me, nor does she let me perform the same on her. She thinks it is unsafe and perverted. Is there any book that can give us more information on the subject? Also, are ultra-thin condoms as effective as the normal ones? Please reply.

Answer. Search on the Internet to find out more about oral sex. Research indicates that the penis and the vagina are virtually free from infection. In fact the mouth has more germs than the vagina. The ultra-thin condoms are just as effective as any other variety of condoms.