Question. I am 25 years old and I got married five years ago. We have two sons but now my husband is not interested in sex. Since the past three years we have been having sex only once a fortnight. Though he looks after me very well, I am confused. I fear that he may be having an affair. Help me.

Answer. Suspicion sends a marriage on the rocks. Since he is good with you, when you have some quiet time together, tell him you have a great desire to be near him more often. Also ask yourself how you could be more attractive to him so he has no reason to look elsewhere. If you are more sexually aroused, why not self stimulate yourself to orgasm.