Question. I have just started enjoying sex with my husband after 10 years of marriage. I don’t like to have sex everyday whereas he expects us to do it in the daytime too when the kids and maids are around. He watches a lot of porn and expects similar behaviour from me. Watching porn repulses me, creating quarrels in our otherwise happy marriage. Do I need counselling?

Answer. Stolen sweets taste best, so why not enjoy the naughty moments during the day. Pretence is often used by a wife to keep her husband happy. If you do not like to do what he wants then tell him, but occasionally oblige him too. In turn, you might start enjoying yourself even more. Quarrels get in the way of good sex.